First, Happy New Year! Second, I need to vent and here is a little of it.
So...as you may know, I lost my job in May. Since then, I have been looking to no avail so far. To help with bills, Kevin and I got a roommate. I was not technically supposed to be here but a job interview gone awry is why I am. Well...back to the roommate thing. He moved in at the end of October. And can I say WOW! Before he moved in he told us not to have sex. Well...we are married. He for all purposes is not. (It's a long story that would take a few days to type out.) Little did I know our roommate is a whore. He is not a little whore but a huge one. He has had more than two females on more than one night and at one point he slept with 5 girls within 4 days!!
He never changes the sheets in between them and at times showers once every two days! Not even once a day!! His girls (they are not women or ladies and won't be called that until they learn to mature) are rude, disrespectful, have no common courtesy and are loud. When I say loud I mean I can hear them. I hear them screaming. If you clap your hands together I hear that noise too! When I say rude they come into the apartment I live in with Kevin and him and do not speak. They walk in front of the tv I watch, next to me, behind me, whatever and do not speak. They are rude! When I say disrespectful and no common courtesy I mean for themselves, our living area, and me as a roommate. They scream to the top of their lungs while on their way to having an orgasm. I have to hear it often and I am not happy. So...imagine when the one he "likes" comes over on New Years Eve right before the ball drops and after the ball drops, I get to listen to them for at least 20 minutes.
Happy New Year to me. So...I wanted to congratulate them on their performance later on New Years but they had left. When he comes back the next day I told him how loud they were. Kevin, laughs and tells him not to listen to me and my opinions. After our roommate has another girl come over and I hear them too I tell him to use a pillow. Kevin them tells him he thinks I try to listen because I like to listen. Umm...WTF? Are you kidding me? So imagine my surprise at the LACK of Support I have from my husband!
So I'm already pissed. And to top it off...then he tells me the one he "likes" is coming over to sleep. So I say "Make sure you use a pillow." And he gets an attitude and says, "I said just to sleep." Umm....how are you going to get an attitude with me. Your sleep and mine are obviously different like your talk and my talk are different. When I say talk I mean talk with my mouth not my private area. You say it and you don't mean talk with your mouth.
So now, I am super pissed. I have a husband with a lack of support for and of me. He takes sides with the whore roommate instead of me. So later on that night, Kevin and the whore roommate decide that the roommate will not have sex here. I don't care if he has sex or not but I want him to learn respect and common courtesy. So...now I am in silent mode. I don't want to talk to Kevin or the roommate and I don't need to. It's them against me and in reality, Kevin should be on my side fighting for our respect from the roommate instead of acting like I am the Big Bad Witch of the West.
It's simple as to what I want. I want to not hear the roommate have sex. I don't care if he has it or not in his room but I DO NOT WANT TO HEAR IT!! I want respect and common courtesy. I deserve it and if you live with me, it's the least you could do. I want my husband to support me instead of making me seem like a witch and saying things that upset and almost embarrass me.
Is that too hard to ask? I think not. Well, that is all. Happy New Year from my first blog of the year. Thanks for listening to me vent! I appreciate it and needed it.
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